WHAT A WOMAN NEEDS

• EVERY MAN SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING A GENTLEMAN.
• YOU MUST ACQUIRE THE BASIC KNOWLEDGE OF ETIQUETTE COURTESY AND ROMANCE, EVERYMAN SHOULD KNOW THE BASIC NEEDS OF A WOMAN.
• YOU MUST ALSO KNOW HOW TO MEET THOSE NEEDS.
• IF YOU DON`T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU SHOULD TREAT A LADY WELL THEN YOUR ACTIONS WILL BE VERY SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW.
• THE WOMAN WILL SEE THROUGH THOSE SHALLOW ACTIONS AND DISLIKE YOU!
• A WOMAN COULD LOVE YOU, BUT SHE MIGHT DISLIKE YOUR WAYS
• EVERY MARRIAGE BEGINS WITH A DATE.
• THE FOUNDATIONS OF YOUR MARRIAGE ACTUALLY BEGINS WITH THE PRINCIPLES YOU ESTABLISH WHILE DATING.
• EVEN IF YOUR WIFE HAS GAINED A FEW MORE POUNDS, YOU MUST STILL BE KIND, SENSITIVE AND CONSIDERATE TOWARDS HER NEEDS.
• FIRST THINS FIRST BEFORE WE CONSIDER THE NEEDS OF A WOMAN.
• YOU SHOULD NEVER CONSIDER DATING A WOMAN UNLESS SHE IS A POTENTIAL PARTNER FOR MARRIAGE.
• THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO MARRY SHOULD BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN, THE KEEPER OF YOUR HOME AND THE PERSON YOU WANT TO GROW OLD WITH AND YOU’RE BEST FRIEND IN TIMES OF LIFE’S DIFFICULTIES.
• THIS MEANS THAT THE WOMAN WHO EXPOSES HER CHEST WITH A LOW-CUT BLOUSE AND A SKIRT THAT REVEALS EVERYTHING IS CERTAINLY DISQUALIFIED.
• THE WOMAN WHO DOES NOT KNOW JESUS THE WAY YOU DO IS DISQUALIFIED.
• WHILE IT IS TRUE THAT THOSE WOMEN CAN CHANGE, YOU MUST REALIZE YOU ARE NOT THEIR SAVIOR.
• YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT WHATEVER A WOMAN IS WILLING TO SHOW, SHE IS WILLING TO SHARE.
• THIS KIND OF WOMAN WILL BRING YOU PAIN AND CONSTANT HEARTACHE, HER SECOND HIGH NAME IS TROUBLE.
• NO MAN OR WOMAN SHOULD LOOK FOR A MATE, JUST TO SATISFY YOUR PHYSICAL SEXUAL NEEDS.
• YOU MUST PRAY FOR SELF-CONTROL WHILE WAITING TO MEET THE RIGHT PERSON. GAL. 5: 22

FIVE BASIC NEEDS OF A WOMAN.

1. AFFECTION

• WOMEN ARE CREATURES OF RELATIONSHIP
• A WOMAN’S BIGGEST EMOTIONAL NEED AND GOAL IN LIFE IS TO FEEL THAT THEY ARE ONE WITH SOMEONE.
• GOD CREATED THE WOMAN FROM THE RIB OF A MAN.
• THEY ARE HER IMAGE AND VALUES ARE BASED ON ACHIEVING ONENESS WITH HER MATE
• IF A WOMAN KNOWS SHE IS LOVED AND RECEIVES AFFECTION FROM HER MAN, SHE WILL CO-OPERATE WITH HIM TO OVERCOME LIFE’S CHALLENGES.
• AFFECTION MEANS THE STATE OF HAVING ONE’S FEELINGS AND MIND INFLUENCED OR MOVED BY KINDNESS, TENDERNESS AND SENSITIVITY.
• EPH. 5; 25 SIMPLY MEANS SHOWING LOVE, WARMTH AND CONCERN FOR YOUR WIFE.
• HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES, EVEN AS CHRIST ALSO LOVED THE CHURCH, AND GIVE HIMSELF FOR IT”
• THIS PRINCIPLE APPLIES TO THE MARRIED AS WELL AS THE SINGLE THAT ARE ASPIRING TO MARRIAGE.
• IF YOU WANT TO FIND A WIFE YOU NEED TO LEARN TO SHOW LOVE, WARMTH AND CONCERN. START TO SHOW HER AFFECTION AND PLENTY OF IT.
• EPH. 5:25 YOU OUGHT TO LOVE YOUR WIFE JUST AS CHRIST LOVES THE CHURCH.
• THAT MEANS YOU MUST DEVELOP A SERVANT MENTALITY AND PUT HER AND HER NEEDS AND DESIRES AHEAD OF YOURS.
• IN ADDITION YOU MUST BE READY TO FORGIVE AND FORGET
• GOD SAYS YOUR SINS AND INIQUITIES HE WILL REMEMBER NO MORE. HEB.8:12
• NO MATTER YOUR SINS, GOD REMAINS, TENDER AND SENSITIVE TOWARDS YOU, THAT’S EXACTLY HOW HE WANTS YOU TO BE TOWARDS YOUR PARTNER.
• MEN, GOD IS SIMPLY COMMANDING YOU TO LOVE YOUR WOMAN THE WAY HE LOVES YOU AND THERE SHOULD BE NO EXCUSE.
• OF COURSE SHOWING AFFECTION MAY NOT BE AN EASY THING FOR YOU TO DO, BUT LIKE ANYTHING ELSE IN LIFE YOU MUST PRACTICE.
• YOU HAVE TO START CONFESSING BY FAITH, “I’M AN AFFECTIONATE MAN,” YOU MUST START BY FAITH.
• GOD WANTS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD YOUR PARTNER TO BE INFLUENCED BY KINDNESS AND MOVED BY TENDERNESS AND SENSITIVITY.
• REGARDLESS OF HOW TRIVIAL HER CONCERNS MIGHT SEEM TO YOU, SHE NEEDS YOU TO RESPOND WITH WARMTH, LOVE AND CONCERN.
• AFFECTION WAS DESIGNED TO MOVE A WOMAN AND CHANGE HER.
• A WOMAN WILL ALWAYS CHANGE IN RESPONSE TO AFFECTION.
• DON`T EXPECT A CHANGE WITHOUT AFFECTION, YOU ARE TO INITIATE IT AS CHRIST HAS DONE FOR THE CHURCH
• ALLOW THE HOLY SPIRIT TO DIRECT YOU TO BE MORE AFFECTIONATE, HE WOULD LET YOU DOWN.
• YOU MUST GIVE YOURSELF TO YOUR WIFE AS CHRIST GAVE HIMSELF TO THE CHURCH.
• FIND OUT WHAT YOUR WIFE APPRECIATES AND DO IT WITH HER OR FOR HER JUST TO SHOW HER THAT YOU LOVE HER.

2. COMMUNICATION

• THE LAST THING YOU WANT TO DO AFTER A LONG DAY AT WORK IS TALK TO ANYONE, ESPECIALLY YOUR WIFE!
• OH HOW A WOMAN CAN TALK.
• THEY TALK ABOUT THIS AND THAT, WHAT SO AND SO SAY, HOW SO AND SO DID THIS, WHAT THEY SAW HERE AND WHAT THEY DID THERE.
• BUT BROTHER THAT’S THE WAY GOD MADE WOMEN!.
• COMMUNICATION IS LIKED TO A WOMAN’S NEED FOR A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP AND EVERYMAN MUST LEARN HOW TO MEET THAT NEED.
• WITH COMMUNICATION COMES OPINION AND TRUST.
• HUSBANDS, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU TRY, YOUR WOMEN CAN’T READ YOUR MIND.
• YOU MAY BE WELL AWARE OF WHY YOU’RE DOING SOMETHING OR ACTING IN A CERTAIN WAY, BUT IF YOU DON’T COMMUNICATE IT TO HER, SHE WILL BE LEFT IN A VULNERABLE POSITION.
• SATAN LOVES TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THOSE SITUATIONS
• HE WON’T BE SLOW TO WHISPER AND COMMUNICATE A LOT OF WRONG INFORMATION TO YOUR SPOUSE.
• ALL KINDS OF THOUGHTS WILL COME INTO HER MIND ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND WHY.
• A WOMAN CAN A SPEND WHOLE DAY BATTLING DOUBTS AND INSECURITIES ABOUT SOMETHING YOU SAID OR DID.
• ONCE YOU COME HOME SHE WILL THROWS MANY QUESTIONS TO YOU, EXPECTING ANSWERS
• MOST MEN JUST GET VERY UPSET WITH THEIR WIVES AT SUCH MOMENTS.
• DON`T GET WORRIED AND FRUSTRATED AS A MAN YOU HAVE MADE A COMMITMENT TO YOUR LIFE.
• AND YOU NEED TO RESPECT HER BY TELLING HER WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND WHY?
• YOU MUST TAKE TIME TO SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS WITH HER.
• COMMUNICATION IS DIRECTLY LIKED TO A WOMAN’S TRUST.
• IF YOU TAKE TIME TO TALK TO YOUR WIFE OR WIFE TO BE, SHE WILL NEVER BE MOVED BY WHAT OTHERS SAY OR EVEN BY THE THOUGHTS THAT INVADE HER MIND.
• MOST MEN JUST LIKE TO HEAR JUST THE MINIMUM OR JUST THE FACTS AND NONE OF THE DETAILS.
• WOMEN ON THE OTHER HAND WANT TO HEAR IT ALL!
• SO LET HER TELL YOU ALL THE DETAILS AND BE EQUALLY PREPARED TO TELL HER ALL THAT SHE NEEDS TO KNOW.
• THIS WILL NOT JUST FULFILL HER NEED FOR COMMUNICATE IT WILL ONLY MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR BOTH OF YOU.
• THE PURPOSE OF COMMUNICATION IS TO SEEK TO UNDERSTAND AND TO RESOLVE ANY ISSUES AT HAND.
• BEFORE MARRIAGE, SPEND TIME TALKING AND GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER!
• ALLOW YOUR PARTNER TO BE YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOU WILL FIND YOUR LIFE VERY INTERESTING AND REWARDING.

3. HONESTY & OPENNESS

• A WOMAN LOVES AN HONEST AND OPEN MAN.
• HONESTY IS ALWAYS IRRESISTIBLE TO A WOMAN
• HONESTY ALWAYS PRODUCES TRUST
• AS LONG AS A WOMAN DOES NOT TRUST YOU, THEN SHE WILL NOT HAVE ANY CONFIDENCE IN YOU OR IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
• IT IS REALLY NOT IN YOUR OWN INTEREST TO VIOLATE HER TRUST IN YOU.
• WHEN YOU ARE WRONG ABOUT SOMETHING BE HONEST.
• DON`T IS TOO PROUD TO SAY “I’M WRONG AND I’M SORRY: PLS. FORGIVE ME”.
• ADMITTING YOUR MISTAKE AS A MAN WILL NOT DIMINISH YOU
• ON THE CONTRARY, YOU WILL BE A GIANT IN THE EYES OF YOUR WOMAN.
• IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH OPENNESS AND HONESTY ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION:”WHAT IS IT THAT IS KEEPING ME FROM BEING OPEN AND HONEST WITH MY WIFE?
• IS IT PRIDE, FEAR OR INSECURITY?
• WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE, REALIZE THAT TRUST IS AN ESSENTIAL ELEMENT IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
• WITHOUT IT, THE RELATIONSHIP WILL STAGNATE AND DIE.
• IF YOU ARE NOT USED TO BEING OPEN EXPLAIN TO YOUR WIFE AND TAKE A DECISION TO WORK AT IT.
• SOMETIMES WOMEN ABUSE THE TRUST OF OPENNESS BY TELLING FAMILY SECRETS TO OTHERS
• YOU MAY WANT TO LET YOUR WOMAN KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF KEEPING YOUR AFFAIRS JUST BETWEEN YOU BOTH OF SHE WANTS YOU TO CONTINUE YOUR OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION TOGETHER.

4. FINANCIAL SUPPORT

• NO MAN SHOULD EVER MAKE A WOMAN FEEL THAT SHE IS HIS MEAL TICKET!
• LET YOUR WOMAN KNOW THAT YOU LOVE HER AND THAT SHE IS SO VALUABLE TO YOU THAT, THAT YOU WOULD DO EVERYTHING TO SUPPORT HER.
• NEVERTHELESS MAKE GOD YOUR SOURCE AND LET HIM GIVE YOU WISDOM AND SUPPORT YOU IN YOUR EFFORTS TO PROVIDE.
• MANY TIMES, HAND WORD AT THE OFFICE, LEAVES YOU WITHOUT MUCH TIME TO SPEND WITH THE LORD OR WITH YOUR FAMILY.
• REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE GETS OUT OF ORDER, THINS IN THE NATURAL TEND TO FULL APART AS WELL.
• YOU MUST DO ALL THAT IS SPIRITUALLY AND NATURALLY POSSIBLE TO FINANCIALLY SUPPORT YOUR FAMILY.
• THEN YOUR WOMAN WILL RESPECT YOU.
• YOU CAN DO LITTLE THINGS HERE AND THERE TO SUPPORT THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO MARRY FINANCIALLY
• LITTLE THINGS THAT YOU MAY THINK OF DOING WILL SHOW THE WOMAN WHAT KING OF SUPPORT YOU ARE.

5. FAMILY COMMITMENT

• NATURALLY EVERY WOMAN IS LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO WILL BE COMMITTED.
• YOUR WIFE MUST KNOW WHAT COME WHAT MAY; YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER AND THE CHILDREN.
• SHE MUST HAVE ASSURANCE THAT YOU WILL NEVER DISAPPEAR WITH SOMEONE ELSE AFTER SHE MIGHT HAVE TRUSTED HER ENTIRE LIFE IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
• ALTHOUGH YOU PROVIDE, INCOME, HOUSING AND SECURITY FOR THE FAMILY, IT TAKES MORE THAN THAT TO SHOW COMMITMENT.
• SPEND TIME WITH YOUR WIFE AND TEACH YOUR CHILDREN THE WORD OF GOD.
• BE COMMITTED TO TRAINING THEM IN THE WAY OF THE LORD JUST LIKE ABRAHAM DID GEN. 18; 19
• A WOMAN WILL SEE YOUR COMMITMENT BY THE INTEREST YOU SHOW HER AND HOW INVOLVED YOU ARE IN HER LIFE.
• YOU DON’T HAVE TO CALL HER 20 A DAY!
• RATHER FIND OUT WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO HER AND SHOW YOUR SUPPORT.
• WHAT YOU VALUE, THE PRINCIPLES YOU LIVE BY AND THE STRENGTH OF CHARACTER YOU DISPLAY WILL ALL SHOW YOUR LEVEL OF COMMITMENT TO HER
• THAT’S WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO DATE FOR ONE WHOLE YEAR BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO MARRY ANYONE.
• BECAUSE IN THAT TIME MANY THINGS WILL COME TO SURFACE.
• WHEN YOU INVEST YOUR TIME, ENERGY, EFFORT AND A PART OF YOURSELF IN ANOTHER PERSON, IT SHOWS YOU ARE COMMITTED TO THEM.
• CHOOSE TO SPEND SOMETIME JUST CHATTING WITH YOUR WIFE INSTEAD OF FIRST WATCHING SOCCER AND EATING WELL!
• AS YOUR COMMITMENT BECOMES OBVIOUS TO THE WOMAN YOU LOVE, SHE’LL REWARD YOU FOR IT IN HER OWN WAY.
• BE THE KIND OF MAN THAT A WOMAN WANTS TO BE AROUND BY ENCOURAGING HER.
• MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE’S THE QUEEN OF THE EARTH!
• EVERYONE LIKES TO BE AROUND PEOPLE WHO ENCOURAGE THEM
• DON`T THINK THAT YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING. SOMETIMES WE ENCOURAGE OTHERS BY BEING JUST GOOD LISTENERS.
• LISTENING IS AN ART; AND DOING IT SHOWS HOW MUCH CARE AND RESPECT YOU HAVE FOR THE OTHER PERSON. .
• CLEANLINESS IS ALSO REWARDING.
• MOST MEN DON’T CARE ABOUT THEIR DETANGLED HYGIENE
• BUT EVERY LADY NEEDS A CLEAN, WELL GROOMED AND WELL ORGANIZED PERSON.
• FOUL BREATH IS NOT ATTRACTIVE, PEOPLE COMPLAIN OF FOUL BREATH BECAUSE THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT BRUSHING THEIR MOUTH.
• MEN TAKE SOME PRIDE IN YOUR HYGIENE AS WELL AS IN YOUR APPEARANCE.
• NO MATTER YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES OR WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, MAKE SURE YOU REMAIN GIVING AND GENEROUS.
• GOD HAS MADE MEN SERIOUS RESPONSIBILITIES.
• NOT ONLY TO BE THE LEADER OR THE PROVIDER BUT AS THE ONES WHO MUST ACCOUNT FOR WHATEVER GOES WRONG IN THE FAMILIES.
• AFTER ADAM AND EVE HAVE SINNED GOD DID NOT WALK THROUGH THE GARDEN CALLING FOR EVE.
• INSTEAD HE CALLED AFTER ADAM. GEN. 3: 9
• NOT ONLY HAS GOD GIVEN YOU A GREAT RESPONSIBILITY, HE HAS ALSO EQUIPPED YOU TO PERFORM THESE MIGHT WORKS AND DEEDS.
• WHETHER IT BE AFFECTION, COMMUNICATION, HONESTY, OPENNESS.